MOMS: WHAT ARE SOME LIFE TIPS FOR THIRTEEN YEAR OLD GIRLS?
I’m thirteen, and i do not unequivocally have a mother there for me.
do you have any recommendation or tips about anything which i’ll only you know, kind of need to know? thanks
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February 8th, 2010 at 10:04 pm
don’t take any wooden nickles.
February 8th, 2010 at 10:52 pm
drugs will take you no where in life. they’ll be fun at the time & you’ll get hooked. then 10 years time you will be sitting in the same place you started.
February 8th, 2010 at 11:45 pm
I’m not a mom (yet), but remember that life will only get better, make the most out of the time you are in school, because it will pass, QUICKLY, and you will be wondering where it went. Don’t do something just because your friends are doing it, most likely you will regret it later. And stand up for what’s important to you. People will respect you more if you are yourself and your own person than if you follow the crowd.
February 8th, 2010 at 11:57 pm
The best advice i can give you is this. Dont blindly follow others. Always think for yourself and never compromise on your integrity. Many peers and even adults will try to get you to change your views and it just isnt worth it. You have to always be true to your sense of self. That doesnt mean ignore what they have to say but always weigh the information and see if its really best for you.
EDIT: oh and one more piece of advice. Most teens try sex, drugs, and alcohol or smoking. im not going to lecture you or tell you not to. But when you need help with ANY issue ask for it. It will save you a LOT of heartache and frustration in the long run.
February 9th, 2010 at 12:48 am
dont get pregnant that sucks
February 9th, 2010 at 1:15 am
ah honey.im sorry to hear that.but i can say i remember 13 and im actually about to go back into 13 with my oldest. the advice i would give you is stay away from drugs,dont listen to boys when they lie to you about sex, pick true honest friends,do good in school. never give up your dreams.
February 9th, 2010 at 1:41 am
The philosophy that helped me through my teen years was this: a real friend (or a good boyfriend) will never try to get you to do things that you don’t want to do. They’ll respect you for your individuality and not judge you for not going along with the group. Peer pressure can be really tough, just remember that friends that really care about you won’t pressure you.
February 9th, 2010 at 2:04 am
Well I am not a mom, so I will give you advice my mom gave me.
Boys come and go, but your friends are there forever. Don’t choose a boyfriend over your friends. Even though new romance is young and exciting remember, when that relationship is over, think about who will be the one drying your eyes and making you smile
^_^
February 9th, 2010 at 2:45 am
Don’t do drugs. Stay away from guys who say one thing and do another, they are not worth your time. Go to school for as long as you can, before you have kids. Dream big. Best luck to you. Gail
February 9th, 2010 at 3:27 am
Advice on friends:
Don’t talk behind people’s backs. Never, ever, ever! It always gets back to them, and it always makes you look bad. If you don’t like someone, just keep it to yourself. And if you hear someone talking about someone else, don’t join in. Just stay silent or try to change the subject. People will admire you much more for being a nice person than they will for spreading gossip.
Learn to keep secrets, and don’t spread gossip or rumors. Sharing some juicy news might make people listen to you, but it won’t make them trust you. And if people think you’re a blabbermouth, they’ll think twice about telling you anything. Go ahead and listen to what others have to say, but keep it to yourself. If people trust you, you’ll be the one they tell everything.
Don’t hold grudges. If someone ticks you off, let them know, and be honest about your feelings. Say, “What you did hurt my feelings.” Give them a chance to apologize, and then forgive them and move on. If you just stay mad without talking about it, they might never know what they did upset you, and they won’t be able to correct the problem.
Advice on being popular:
True popularity means being liked and respected by everyone… not just a few people in the “cool” group. A lot of people don’t realize that. They think that hanging around a certain group will make them popular. So they put all their effort into trying to impress and be accepted by that group. But the truth is, the “cool” group is constantly changing… they’re in one day, and out the next. If those are your only friends, you’ll be yesterday’s news right along with them. Also… many of the kids who are super popular in middle school end up not-so-popular in high school. They end up being the skanky ones who get into trouble. It’s the nice kids who get good grades, stay involved at school, and are friendly to everyone, who end up being class president and homecoming queen.
So be nice and friendly to everyone. And that means *everyone*… the cool kids, the nerdy kids, the emo kids, the jocks, preps, even the mean stuck-up snotty kids and the ones who get into trouble. You don’t have to best friends with everyone, but if you ignore or shun people because they aren’t like you, you’ll come across as rude and snotty yourself. And you’ll miss out on a lot, because everyone has something to offer.
Advice on boys:
The one thing that attracts guys more than anything else is confidence… girls who respect themselves, who believe they deserve the best, and who won’t put up with any guy who doesn’t treat them right. These are the girls that guys have to work for, which makes guys want them even more.
But if a guy isn’t absolutely crazy about you, or doesn’t like you enough to treat you right, then there’s nothing you can do to change that. It’s not your fault; it’s just not meant to be. So forget about him and move on. Don’t lower your standards or change yourself, because that just doesn’t work. It will actually backfire, because that will send the message that you’re so desperate, you’ll do anything. And desperate is the opposite of confidence.
Girls who are “easy” – who make out, have sex, etc. too soon – are making a big mistake. They think that giving a guy what he wants will make him suddenly fall in love with them. But it doesn’t work that way. He may like the fooling around, but he won’t like you any more. He’ll actually like you less, because the message you’re sending him is: “I’m not good enough for you, so the only way you’ll stick around is if I do stuff with you.” And if YOU don’t think you’re good enough, no guy will think you are, either.
So don’t do anything with a guy until you know that he’s really committed to you. If he is, he’ll want to be with you no matter what, and he’ll be willing to wait until you’re ready. If a guy won’t stay with you without sex, he’s not gonna stay with you because of sex.
I hope this helps some! =]
February 9th, 2010 at 4:23 am
Take care of yourself
Have fun (safely!)
Always do what you think is right
Treasure every moment
Dont try to grow up too fast
Be thankful for what you have
February 9th, 2010 at 5:01 am
I tell my 13 yr old to love herself that means take care of your body, when you dress nice and are clean you always feel better about yourself and i will say you are a unique person there is no one else like you, dont let other people shape who you are, always be yourself, be honest, kind, respectful, loving. When it comes to boys i always tell her why would you want a boyfriend right now you are too young, enjoy hanging out with your girlfriends cause one of these days you will graduate from high school and you will lose most of your friendships and you will miss it so be happy and enjoy your friends as much as you can, I know she is a teenager and she is kinda in the middle of being a kid and starting to become an adult but she is still a kid and she needs to enjoy being kid so just because she is 13 doesnt mean she cant go run through the sprinkler with all the little kids on the block LOL and no matter what you think or how you bad you feel, there is always someone out there in this world that loves you you may not see it but they are there.